Mutual Aid in Aging: The "6070" Generation Lends a Hand, the "8090" Generation Enjoys Their Later Years

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Auntie with graying temples supports a grandmother with faltering steps; a nimble-handed uncle naturally takes the grocery basket from the arm of an elderly man leaning on a cane. Amidst laughter and cheerful talk, the familiar concern resembles that of family, yet these are actually neighbors who see each other day in and day out. Entering the Bilanghu Community in Chaoyang Subdistrict, Wuxing District, where residents over 60 years old account for more than 40% of the population, the practices of "the elderly helping the elderly" and "neighborhood watch" have long been integrated into daily life. In April of this year, the Ministry of Civil Affairs and 10 other departments issued the first guidance document to promote mutual aid elderly care, clearly defining the core value of "neighborhood mutual assistance." This precisely validates the foresight of the Bilanghu Community, which has been cultivating a "neighborhood circle" and exploring mutual aid elderly care services right at people's doorsteps. On May 9, a reporter visited the site to experience a typical day of mutual aid elderly care here.

**A Morning Knock: True Friendship from Across the Hall** "Sister Wu, I'm here to take your blood pressure!" Early in the morning, Zou Zhimei from Building 221 in the Bichao Garden residential area of Bilanghu Community gently knocked on the door of Grandma Wu, who lives in the same building. "Coming!" responded the nearly 80-year-old Grandma Wu with a smile. She had battled breast cancer and, after her husband passed away, felt lonely and without support. Zou Zhimei noticed this and often visited to chat and show concern, helping to dispel her loneliness. Zou Zhimei, now 65, has lived in the community for 26 years and always proactively assists the oldest residents. She once meticulously cared for the elderly woman living alone across the hall for eight years until her passing. When praised, she simply says, "We're all neighbors; it's only right to lend a hand." But how can this individual goodwill be turned into action by more people? Liu Liming's assistance reveals the community's approach. That morning, the kitchen pipe in Old Yao's home was clogged, flooding the floor and causing him great distress. After seeking help, the community's "Skilled Persons Database" quickly contacted Liu Liming. He grabbed his tools and went to Old Yao's home, working all morning and charging only 100 yuan, far below the market rate. "Getting it fixed outside would cost at least 200 yuan!" Old Yao exclaimed, both surprised and delighted. This 100-yuan difference reflects the community's thoughtful planning. Investigations found that many relatively younger seniors like Zou Zhimei and Liu Liming have joined the "Neighborhood Watch" WeChat group. They collaborate with Party member volunteers, dividing tasks to provide services for older, solitary seniors, such as grocery shopping, accompanying to medical appointments, and household repairs. The community stipulates that for certain services, reasonable fees below market rates can be charged. This avoids moral pressure for entirely unpaid service but also prevents arbitrary overcharging. This moderate compensation both considers the service provider's motivation and alleviates the financial burden on the elderly, making mutual assistance sustainable.

**A Midday Meal: Big Warmth in a Small Canteen** Just after 10:30 AM, a line had already formed at the entrance of the "Ruyi Canteen" in Bilanghu Community. Over a hundred elderly residents waited in an orderly fashion, their eyes filled with anticipation. At 10:45, the service window opened, the line moved slowly forward, card readers beeped, and most seniors swiped for the 7-yuan "Caring Meal Set": one meat dish, one vegetable dish, rice, and soup. "Convenient, affordable, and the taste is good too." When mentioning this canteen, which had just "reached its first month," the elderly residents' evaluations were surprisingly consistent. Ninety-year-old Li Hanquan came with his wife to eat. He said everyone had long hoped for a canteen, and now their wish had finally come true. This simple home-cooked meal represents the community's targeted effort to solve the "difficulty of eating" for the elderly. It is also a vivid practice of how mutual aid elderly care responds to people's livelihood needs. "Back when Li Hanquan noticed there was unused public space in Building 249 of the residential area, he immediately suggested to me that it could be used for a canteen," said Yang Xiao, the Community Party Committee Secretary. The canteen's realization relied not only on the enthusiasm of the elderly but also on the joint efforts of multiple parties. Cai Jun, head of the homeowners' committee, took the initiative to lead and actively promote the canteen's construction. Huzhou Zhongfang Zhicheng Property Co., Ltd., as the manager of the public space, not only offered a discount on the rent but also helped renovate the greenery and infrastructure at the entrance. Through the tripartite linkage of the community, property management, and homeowners' committee, they eventually connected with the Huzhou Wuxing District South Taihu Lake Home-based Elderly Care Service Center. The center fully funded the renovation, allowing the canteen to open smoothly and even serve surrounding neighborhoods. With nearly 20 years of community work experience, Yang Xiao is well aware that the difficulty lies in the long-term operation of such canteens. During preparation, she and Fei Lan, the head of the service center, established the principle of "serving the elderly with minimal profit and opening to all ages to generate operational vitality." Fei Lan has done the calculations. Currently, about 150 elderly people dine at the canteen daily. Relying solely on the 7-yuan meal set is insufficient to break even. Therefore, they have expanded services like delivery, group meals, and private room dining, using profits from these market-oriented services to subsidize the elderly meal sets. "The subdistrict and community are helping us connect with the lunch needs of organizations within the jurisdiction," Fei Lan said. With a virtuous cycle of "government supplementing a bit, enterprises conceding a bit, and individuals contributing a bit," this heartwarming service can be sustained. It also provides a feasible model for operating elderly canteens in older residential communities.

**An Afternoon Cup of Tea: Volunteers Safeguarding Well-being Together** The afternoon sun was warm, and the warmth of volunteer assistance in the Bichao Garden residential area was equally strong. Seventy-nine-year-old Shen Kening is a veteran backbone of the community volunteer team and was among the first to join the "Moral Clinic" volunteer group. In the past, she and her companions were busy mediating neighborhood disputes. Now, with the community becoming more harmonious, her focus has shifted to home visits and policy outreach. With years of volunteer experience, Shen Kening is thoroughly familiar with social welfare policies. That afternoon, she sat in Grandma Qiu's home, drinking hot tea and chatting, holding the elderly woman's hand and reminding her: "In a few months, your son will turn 49. Given your family situation, you can apply for an annual subsidy of 960 yuan. If you can't remember, I'll help you with the process." She infused the cold, official policy with the warmth of everyday life. The caring support for the community's elderly relies on the strength of various volunteer teams. Over the years, Bilanghu Community has nurtured volunteer groups like the "Moral Clinic," "Neighborhood Helping Group," and "Colorful Volunteer Team." Through daily actions like "helping across the hall, lending a hand on the way, dropping by for a chat, or pouring a cup of tea," they have shortened the distance between neighbors, built trust, and fostered mutual understanding and assistance. They also collaborate with social volunteer forces to provide services like "staggered visits + neighborhood watch" specifically for the oldest seniors, empty nesters, and those who have lost their only child, ensuring that care in Bichao Garden continues around the clock. Grandma Wang's family lives in straitened circumstances, and successive illnesses among family members have made things even harder. Before last New Year's Day, through community coordination, "Sister Aying" from the Chaoyang Subdistrict Kindness in Action team was paired with her. Since then, during every holiday, Sister Aying has visited without fail, bringing daily necessities like rice and cooking oil, rain or shine. This internal-external linkage between the community and social forces is key to bridging gaps in elderly care services.

**An Evening Class: The Glow of the Setting Sun Shines Uniquely Bright** After dinner, Yao Shenyu's studio was filled with laughter. Six elderly neighbors sat around a table, holding brushes, carefully following her stroke by stroke as she demonstrated. Seventy-eight-year-old Ju Jiazhong painted with particular concentration. Putting down his brush, he chuckled and mused, "The last time I held a brush was in elementary school. Back then, I painted for fun as a child; now, I paint for joy as an elder. The more I paint, the more flavor I find in it." After speaking, he lowered his head again to carefully outline the lines. The one-hour calligraphy and painting class ended quickly. The elderly students put away their brushes but were reluctant to leave. "Just come often; I'll be here," Yao Shenyu said with a smile as she saw everyone out. Yao Shenyu's paintings have been exhibited in many places. Now a silver-haired elder herself, she teaches calligraphy and painting to her elderly neighbors for free: "I am also an elderly person. I understand the thoughts of the elderly. Accompanying everyone to find joy, igniting their 'artistic dreams,' is an exceptionally happy thing for me." In Bilanghu Community, such "Silver-haired Classrooms" can be seen everywhere. Relatively younger seniors with specific skills have transformed into "Silver-haired Teachers," instructing in calligraphy and painting, leading fitness activities, directing choir groups—using their remaining energy to warm the twilight years of the older seniors. The community also actively creates platforms, establishing senior academies, interest classes, and health lectures, encouraging the elderly to step out of their homes, integrate into the group, and gradually shift from merely "aging" to "enjoying their later years." "Bilanghu Community oversees three residential areas: Bichao Garden, Bibo Garden, and Nanhua Homestead. Bichao Garden is the pilot for mutual aid elderly care. There are 740 residents over 60 here. 'The younger elderly helping the older elderly, the healthy helping those with disabilities' is our core approach," Yang Xiao admitted frankly. Currently, the mutual aid team in the community numbers in the hundreds, but the core backbone members are only about twenty. Faced with the growing needs of the oldest seniors for daily life assistance, healthcare, and emotional companionship, how to increase incentives, expand the team of middle-aged and young volunteers, and simultaneously utilize resources from new residents to precisely match the elderly's needs for housekeeping, cleaning, and other services remains an ongoing challenge for the community's mutual aid elderly care model to solve. Stepping out of the residential area, the setting sun was intense, its afterglow spilling over the staggered buildings, shining on the neighbors coming and going together, and quietly illuminating the path forward for mutual aid elderly care...

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